When you surround yourself with negative people, you attract the same energy as what they are attracting because surrounding yourself with people that only talk negatively of themselves or on other people will only drain your energy, thus will have you be placed in a toxic environment in which you don’t want. When these people start to think negatively and talk badly on other people that they are surrounded with, chances are you would also adopt these traits that they have because the people you spend time with influence your thoughts, attitude, and success in life more than you think. In short, you become your environment, because most importantly, it is indeed our environment that shapes and influences us on both physically and mentally on how we live our life.
Your choice of friends determines who you are as a person and defines what you wanted to surround yourself with, for instance, if you become more drawn to people who had an optimistic attitude and creates a wonderful environment to live to, then you want your life to be constantly at peace and you put yourself in a situation where you don’t want anything to do with people that can only drain your energy and negatively impacts your life, whereas on the other hand, when you tend to hang out with pessimistic people then you are also being pessimists yourself.
The people you spend your time with and the environment you surround yourself with are supposed to lift you up and not drain you in a way. So whatever it is that you do, Shift your energy and negative mindset to become positive and get rid of the negativity that you had in you to attract more positivity and improve aspects of your life. Stay close to the things that bring your heart peace and makes your life better instead of focusing on the negativity that you had in your mind.
Start by disconnecting from certain people in the toxic environment you’re in, that makes you question your self-worth or puts you down instead of encouraging you to be better. Remove these people in your life because I’ll tell you, you don’t need them, and they can only affect your attitude and your way of thinking.
You won’t grow once you stick with these people especially if you keep getting discouragement from them and stops you from moving forward. Stop being so empathetic that you brush off what they do and say that could only affect your life in a bad way just because you are scared of losing them, when in fact, you don’t really deserve them, so go ahead and cut them off, it will do you good.
Having said that, once you finally started to surround yourself with like-minded individuals that positively think so much like you, it makes you live happier and at peace with life. It feels like nothing you do can ever bother other people anymore because you are doing this for yourself and your growth as a person. You’ll realize there is so much more in life when you began prioritizing your self-worth. You know yourself that you matter, so when you do something new or you ended up improving your capabilities, you now surround yourself with people that think as much as you do and the result will always be better than before you get rid of the negativity.
The more positive and successful people you vibe with, the more it brings you up. You know you are in the right environment with these people when you are growing and happier than you are before because these people only want to see the best in you, they want others to succeed in life and support them on their journey as much as you do.
They are genuinely happy overall as well as smarter because the level of intelligence correlates positivity, which means that they are more likely to be optimistic because they think that nothing negative can bring them down, that no matter how much they feel down, they would always come back stronger the next time around. They also focus on learning and improving their abilities and enhancing their skills because as you know they are ‘optimistic’ so they think highly of their future. They became aware of themselves that they notice they are much more when they do not surround themselves with people that bring them down, that they wouldn’t amount to anything else if they only let themselves be stuck up in the negative environment they are at.
Of course, you don’t want that so what better way to take care of yourself better than to remove the negative energy that you had and start finding like-minded people that can support you in every journey and struggles you will encounter. After all, there is no greater feeling than surrounding yourself with people who only bring you up
Once you start associating yourself with these people, you may never find yourself to be surrounded by the negative people and their toxicity, you will always find that these negative people no matter how much you wanted them to change, can never change themselves. They will always remain the same way they are before up until now.
There is no denying that you will meet many different types of people in this lifetime, but you have the power to choose the people you surround yourself with and it depends how much they influence you. Remember, the more you sought peace and think positively, the more you tend to view yourself as optimistic and aware of your surroundings with hopes to be the better person you always dreamed of. The more time you spent on improving yourself for the better, the more you are closer to achieving your future goals and be in the right direction.
Ultimately, it all starts within you, how much your heart is urging for you to get away from the negative mindset of the environment you are at and how much you badly needed to shift your mindset into positive thinking in order for you to move forward. How much you wanted to improve the negative aspects of yourself and live a better life. With that said, you are like those who you surround with, so why not just choose to be in the right environment of people that gives you motivation, ignites your passion and helps you to succeed in life.
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